Choosing the Right Wife?

How do you select the right wife?

This is a question I wish I had asked myself before I married, but at the time I was in love with my wife and nothing else mattered. I love my wife and she is one of my best friends and one of the most loving people I have shared my life with. As I have learned more about marriage love and respect I began to ask the question, how do you select the right wife? I asked myself, would I marry the same woman knowing what I know now?

I thought about the important areas of my life:

My Happiness
My relationship with family
My relationship with my friends
My relationship with my co-workers

I found all these areas of my life were impacted by my marriage. I now realize marriage life is very than the way I imagined. When I first became marriage I thought of it as having a live in girlfriend with a written agreement (Marriage License) yes I believed in our marriage vows but I thought they were just part of the process like the reception and honeymoon. I know now the VOWS are your new way of life, I have grown to love being married.

Who knows how a marriage will work out, I have seen many marriages fail and succeed. To ensure anything succeeds you need a plan and I realized I did not have a marriage plan. So I decided to focus on my marriage plan and my first task was to identify the kind of woman I should be married to.

Marriage Plan - Finding a Wife

My marriage plan has to begin with selecting the correct wife. So I am going to be honest from my males point of view of what is important in a wife.

First a wife has to be physically attractive. This will keep a man interested in his wife and not allow him desire other women. Its very important that a man marries a woman he feels physically attracted to. Remember beauty is in the hands of the beholder. So find someone you find physically attractive.

Next men want someone who they can respect and feel comfortable around. This will allow them to share their most intimate thoughts. I want to share my personal passions with my wife, it would be a travesty to find it easier to speak with another woman besides my wife.

Like women men need someone who beliefs and enjoys family. Someone who desires to be in the presence of family. Someone who understands the role of being a cousin, nephew, son, uncle and most importantly a father. If you are not concerned with building a family then make sure you find a wife with the same mind set. Remember people change as they grow older and become wiser.

Professional men need a woman who understands how the professional world works and understands your only as good as you are today. Professional men can be a little more complex because they are a little more complex let me explain. Some men really focus their attention on their wives but some professional men have a challenge of balancing home life and work life. Work life is how these men ensure their living, its how they are able to maintain the quality of life they wish they have. For real men they must work and they need a woman to understand this.

A hard working man must find a woman who understands his work ethic to avoid future complications. He needs wife who understands hes working hard in order to have a better life. He needs a wife who understands action is the only way to obtain results.

Men need a wife who understands them or at least spends the time to learn who they truly are. Men do not need a wife to tell them who they are or should be based on their thoughts and visions. Each man must remain himself and partner with his wife to grow as husband and wife.

Men also need a wife who will always love him and not just tolerate sex. Men must have a wife who provides and generates intimacy in their marriage. Yes the man will make love to his wife but a man needs receive love from his wife as well. If a man begins to believe love making with his wife is routine or not reciprocate with the same level of excitement then there is an open door for challenges. Men especially alpha males need intimate passion and love making before they lay their heads to rest.

A Mans wife must understand she's a woman no matter what she is told from anyone. A man wants a woman who has confidence in herself at all times. A Man needs a woman who understands she is in control of her own happiness.